The hidden pattern behind successful products | Mark Pincus (founder of Zynga) Transcript from https://podmenti.com/t/2ead255c0e6b670a If you're truly ambitious, burn your resume. You have all these amazing contrarian perspectives on how to build amazing products. Your instincts are right ninety-five percent of the time, your ideas are wrong seventy-five percent of the time. We've seen so many founders who just stoically, heroically stick with a losing idea. How do you know if this is just the wrong path you're following? If you're asking whether or not your product Is an A, it's not an A. When you have lightning in a bottle, when you have true signal, everything works. Most products are better versions of things that existed before. Talk about how you get over that hump of copying. It's almost a moral arbitrage. You became a founder, an entrepreneur because you wanted to go be an innovator, but you're trying to win the hearts and minds of nurses. in Indiana like for Farmville, you're not trying to win awards and respect From your peers, define your ambition in the eyes of your consumer. Building a consumer social app. Very few people have successfully done it and built something durable. We have beyond a latent demand for social, it's lost the adrenaline. People are proud to tell you they're not on Instagram. They're not. Missing the party. If you want to reinvent social, look for where the cocktail is. We know it when we see a great cocktail party. You feel it, you're like, oh, I'm so glad I'm here. Today we're all hanging out on our Claude, on our GPT, but there's no cocktail party. My challenge to your listeners is figure out how to make it rowdy. Today my guest is Mark Pincus. Founder of Zinga. Who has arguably created more successful consumer products than anyone else in history. Over a dozen, both within Zinga and before Zinga. And over the past five years, he has been working on a book. That synthesizes all of the things that he's learned about building successful consumer products. It's called Life at the Speed of Play. It's coming out in a few weeks, and it is so good, and it's also a really quick read. In a quote for the book, Sam Altman, the co founder of OpenAI. said that today the only bottleneck to building great products is knowing what to create. Mark is an expert at this. And after reading this book and having this conversation, I could not agree more. In his book and in this conversation, Mark shares a really clever and counterintuitive framework that he's developed for coming up with successful product ideas. Why being less ambitious is often the path to coming up with the most ambitious ideas. Why you need to kill your hope before your hope kill you. Why your instincts are usually right, but your ideas are usually wrong. Also what he's learned about raising kids, he's got five And so so so much more. This episode is for anybody who is building a product or thinking about starting a company. Before we get into it, don't forget to check out linny'sproductpass.com. For a free year. Of the hottest and most well crafted AI products in the world, available exclusively to Lenny's newsletter subscribers. With that I bring you Mark Pincus. Mm. Mark, thank you so much. For being here and welcome to the podcast. I've been a big Listener excited to I'm excited to finally be on. So I'm excited to finally have you on. You just put out a book. It's coming out around the same time that this podcast is coming out. It's called Life at the speed of play. There's uh so much here I want to talk about. I wanna start with this framework that you developed. Uh called Proven Better New. And The framework is basically designed to help you come up with and refine your product ideas and your startup ideas. to basically increase the odds that your idea is a good idea and that it will work. Yeah, it is such a clever idea, such a simple idea with so much depth. Um I wanna Spent a bunch of time on this. Um So first of all, just give us kind of the the overview on this framework, what it is, how people might use it. In coming up with ideas. Sure. A framework that we got to early on at Zinga. And it became like a religion. And the fundamental The core Principle's and engine Behind how we did product management. It's in a And it's was so fundamental to the book that for three of the four years writing the book, we called it Proven Better New. But then I was like oh that's too Dry in the And I I love this concept of life at the speed of play, which we can talk about, but is the bigger gestalt of the book. So But Proven better new is this core Um philosophy that I've had around Products. Since I started Zinga. Which is that we have these The we have these instincts. Like in our gut. These human level instincts that are pretty much always right. And then we put these ideas on top of the instinct that are usually wrong. And my rule of thumb is Your instincts are right ninety five percent of the time, your ideas are wrong seventy five percent, or at best right. Twenty five percent of the time. The framework of Proven Better New Takes that Philosophy. And says, Okay, what do we do with that? Okay, let's Let's isolate Your innovation zone. Let's isolate that thing you have in your gut. And let's Just Test. Many, many ideas around that. And let's Fail. For the right reason, not the wrong reason. It might be I mean it's Zinga. We'd see new game launches. Sid Myers, like the You know, Godfather of game design, who's the most revered game designer. He came out with I think a a social civilization. On Facebook. And we thought, Oh God, here comes like The Ultimate game designer. And Ten minutes after the game came out. The Zinga PMs emailed around their analysis and they said it's dead on arrival because is fatui. His first time user experience. With so many clicks and so bad. That no one was ever gonna see his great game design. Even St Myers tripped over What Understood by the most Junior product managers. At Zinga was Um best of breed approach to onboarding a new user to the first time user experience. on the Facebook platform But because He didn't perfectly copy that. He didn't do the proven right. His innovation never got seen by anybody. This episode is brought to you by our season's presenting sponsor, Work OS. What do OpenAI, Anthropic, Cursor, Vercell, Replit, Sierra, Clay, and hundreds of other winning companies all have in common? They are all powered by WorkOS. 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And so The c the point of proven better new is to say Let's take All the proven off the table. Yeah. You wanna build The AI Snapchat or the AI camera. There's so many Of those I see now AI cameras. Fine. Let's start with what you're not innovating on. Yeah. The icon. Um The maybe just the way a camera works. Look for Where that's the best of breed proven, whether it's Apple or Snapchat or Instagram. Yeah. Copy those legally. And With Hopefully some taste we can get into like Great copies and bad copies. But But be a master of the proven first. Get your PhD improved. First. We We don't We haven't earned the right. to innovate on the camera until We are the world's leading PhD on the best mobile cameras. They'd already Exist. And then better is Usually we can't Find better. Better is Usually very small increments in innovations, and better is something that ten out of ten of your existing the existing users of that product would say fuck yeah. Ten out of ten, not you. What you think is better is Called new. Right, what we think is better is new. We usually are too ambitious On the new. And And so Better could be It's now free. There's no download. There's Something that You can both statistically show works you know is better and Every user would say Yes to and And usually it's It's very small and it's polish and it's it's things that Intense uzers, power users. Will notice The most important thing. In our game words with friends. You know, it was scrabble. But if it was just Scrabble, why was it a massive hit? with fourteen million DAUs. And scrabble itself. wasn't, right? There must have been something you know, better and novel about it. But it it had Such a polish for mobile. Was the better And the new, what's the novel new idea, the back of the box? idea that's going to get people to download and try it. And in the case of Words with Friends, it was Social. is attached to the Facebook graph and your friends are just already there. Which with a new idea You know Even that which you think of course I want. you might not get ten out of ten people saying yes. And we have to Except that that new idea Is probably going to fail. It's a reason to try it. For people But it's probably gonna fail. And if we do Proven better new right. The product has much better odds. Of succeeding in the market. Not feeling for the wrong reasons. And if we start with the premise that the new is probably not right and we've got four other new ideas ready to test. Then We we just prosecuted. In it. And and we Really it's I like to think You do proven better new, right? It's it's like a time machine. Because What if I could go back to Mark You know Two thousand Three and four and say, dude. You They don't even realise how right you are. Like One of your Instincts is going to be a one point six trillion dollar company once And you Or a year ahead of them. Right. You're a year ahead of a one point six trillion dollar company. That's You know I'm not gonna tell. Totally cheap, but I'm just gonna tell you there's something There's another answer in this. That you could pursue That'd be worth one point six trillion. Oh, and by the way, your tribe's idea. That's Reddit. That becomes a whole company industry So There's a point in trial where I knew my metrics weren't working, our D thirty retention was terrible. We were sinking speedboat. And If I had Had this Attitude of I'm going to try a lot more ideas. I'm a look around me. Like If you're doing proven better knee, you're also looking around you for what's What are you finding he to proven the market? That you can Also go test. And You know, I would have massively Change my odds of success. Okay, there's so much here. So just to summarize how I think about this framework, which is so Good. Like if you start to really think through all the products that have succeeded, and how many of them actually follow this, whether they're conscious or not, it It's wild. So kind of the steps that I hear is So proven better new. Proven is make a list of the things that are proven to be working already in the market. Things people love. About this sort of space. Better is make something that is Not just better, but that ten out of ten people will say F yeah. I would switch. This is better. And then add something new. That nobody's tried before. That adds a little wrinkle. And I think a little bit like You have a bunch of examples in the book, Slack and Threads. There's also like if you think about the iPhone and the iPod. Like you don't think You don't think about them that way, but basically the I thought there was a music player, they made it better and they added some new stuff. And it Yeah. I was there at the tech conference when this team from MIT was demoing Their touch screen. And they did it on a gigantic Whiteboard. And Steve Jobs was obsessed with it. They had a whiteboard and they had a table with it. And I Watched him. And he spent The whole time. obsessing over their their touch. I don't know if that's the first time he saw it, but I know He was obsessed with it. Like okay. There's his new idea is Is a touch screen. It's only new idea. Um and I wanna say Proven get so misused. And that what I've found over the years with founders Is that They start to use proven better new to justify A wrong idea. And they're like Look, Mark, I'm doing proven. Proven is this game that was popular in the nineties. proven is And they They pick something That And it's To their own. Detriment. There's They're not using proven You we have to be precise, we have to think at the pixel level of this experience. proven is on this platform. For this audience. For this Experience. And You can look to what's been proven before. As great sources of new ideas. But But it's not If it's not on this platform, it's Yeah, it doesn't count as And And yeah. Yeah. The masters at This product craft. do proven better new whether they call it that or not. And they do it. It's such Uh A beautiful level that nobody even thinks No one realizes what its derivative of. And and Slack was A great example because I think Slack might have just been proven and better and no new. And that's even better. If you can get a if you can have a successful product And I I don't want to sound anti innovation. But You know, people don't like Change. So If you take a behavior they like But you may get much more accessible or something much more fun about it, like in the case of Slack. Um People love that even more. There's a this thread of uh of copying that comes through this framework that Will turn a lot of people off. Uh Talk about w what you think people are missing and how you get over that hump of like this is actually the right approach in most cases. In the Peter Thiel sense, it's almost a moral arbitrage. Because There's something In our gut. As a product maker, you You became a founder, an entrepreneur because you wanted to go Be an innovator. And so It can feel like a beat down. That Your path to innovation. starts with copying other people's work, and we were taught in school copying is cheating. So There's There's a lot of good uh reasons why we've built this kind of moral Resistance. Two. Copying. But But that also makes that opportunity in some ways you know, more available for people who have less ego involved. And I like to say and I said this to my product makers at Zinga. If you're truly ambitious, burn your resume. If you and if you define your ambition In the eyes of your consumer, not your peers. You're not trying to win awards and respect From your peers. You're trying to Win the hearts and minds of Nurses in Indiana like for Farmville. You're Going to Define innovation. Differently. And you're You're not going to worry about Whether you're gonna take the best ideas wherever you can find them. If they are in service of giving her of an experience that she loves more. And so If Yeah, So And if you if all you did was copy There's no reason for her to Choose your product, right? But if You took something that she loves. And you make it one inch better. She might. Love that more. than if you showed her something she's never seen before and didn't wake up Knowing That she wanted. And and I think that the The art of this is You do it in a way that she doesn't even Realize it because I think consumer taste. Also Resists. Just a copy. I think that consumer if movies, T V shows, you know, books, if if they feel Two derivative. And they're not adding something important and new. Um Then it It could go against, you know, our consumer taste. But the best product makers And I Love referencing someone like Craig Newmark and Craigslist we took two years to add photos to Craigslist listings. I was like and he lived in my neighborhood. He was Friends with my dog Zinga more than he was friends with me. He was a little awkward socially and he connected more with the dog. And I try to be friends with them through the dog. And so he would sit and talk to me. And he was working on I was like, What are you working on? He said, I've been working for two years on adding photos to listings. I'm like What do you mean two years? He's like, Well I really want to make sure that people like it and that the photos come up in the right ways. I don't know. I don't honestly don't even understand what he did for two years. But If you're driving across San Francisco to buy someone's couch Why wouldn't you wanna why isn't that better? In his mind it was new. They're like that's A world class product maker because he what he gets is that His Th there's We feel the sense of ownership. of products that we rely on every day. And We're angry when they change, even if they change for the better. We're like Angry because We go through life faster because of pattern recognition. And we don't want to think about these things. And What if by adding photos to his listings he moved Where the text was and what if you rifle through listings And now the text is below the fold. Yeah, and A junior product maker might make the whole thing a picture. And not realize that what people liked most was being able to see the text real quick and they were trying to compare prices on the couch they already knew that I don't know. Yeah, I'm thinking like as you're talking, I'm just thinking, uh what are all the best products and are they all just kind of Uh One word to Are they copies and evolutions of existing products, or how many are just completely brand new? And I'm looking around like The iPhone that was, you know, there's phones before they kind of took the elements of what was great, made'em awesome. uh my Awala, I don't know, uh water bottle. Like there was Water bottles that work and then they added Things to make it better. uh chrome. I don't know. I'm just like looking around. Like it's so interesting how once you start to think about it through this lens. Most products are better versions of things that existed before. And then I'm thinking about as a product team, what do you what do you often do? Do you go Look at the competitors. Look at all their flows. Here's what they're doing, here's what's working. Look at all these great ideas. And then you build on that. So I think there's like it's easy to get turned off to this idea of like The word copy But I like as you think about it, this is mostly how products end up getting built anyway. Well there's So much on this that We could We could literally spend the whole podcast on it. Which I'd be fine with two, or do a whole episode just on this. 'Cause it so much comes up for me. On the one hand I think about Nikita, who I think you've had on. And I love it His story on TBH. It's a perfect Example of Mm. Found proven In someone else's product, I that was my first company free loader. What I found was In the Netscape browser and in the Internet Explorer browser. they had buried in there a feature of offline browsing. And my entire product Was Offline browsing. But they had it as this buried Power user feature. And I saw the genius in that for that moment because bandwidth was so Slow that it was like oh we can make an entire product just around that one feature. Nikita saw His perfect product buried inside an Arabic only version right of his product. And he said My God, they they nailed it. So I think the when we can see something that is proven already In someone else's product. But they have you know, the wrong Idea. Around it. That's gold. You know, that's That's one and then Is every product Derivative is every product From proven better data. My answer's no. And I and I talked about this a little bit. In the book. And in my course. But the question is At the outset for all of us. Which path do you want to be on? And I argue That If you go down this path of just Innovate. Start with a blank whiteboard. Don't look at any other products. That is kind of Roveo getting to angry birds. They made forty five games. Every single game was totally different. Not As far as I could tell, learning from the previous failures. Or the market. And their forty fifth shot on goal. was Angry Birds and it was a hit. And it was innovative. But The odds that's wildcat drilling and do you want to have those Odds. Or Do you want to Very similar story, but opposite path, which was O M G pop. Created uh the hit game draw something and Zinga bought them. They were the number one game and app in the app store for Sixty days in You know, two thousand twelve. But OMG pop was on their last dollar. They had tried something totally innovative. No one ever seen her tried it before. It failed completely. And now they were ruthlessly Desperately in need. Of a hit. And now they did proven better new. Perfectly they said. We're going to take This proven game and do every In As perfect students of what is already working and Viral on mobile. And they Perfectly copied our turn based system from Words with Friends. And they made A massive hit. Yeah. Uh yeah. I I love this idea of moral arbitrage that's such a Peter Tillion, you know. Um Yeah. So there's there's so many fun threads that kind of connect all this. One is and you have all these amazing contrarian perspectives on how to build. Amazing product. One is be less ambitious. Talk about why that's a really good lens to actually build more ambitious products. I'm in the middle of Relearning that lesson myself right now. And I'd say Th there's there's so many paradoxes. In this and And one that I've had to learn over and over again is Yeah. If if we're If we're too ambitious. And we're at the outset and too ambitious and visionary about the product we want to build. Then We will probably miss product market fit. Because We won't start At a small enough, humble enough It's it might Usually that The starting point for these products is embarrassingly small. So many A these Massive hit. Products or you know, franchises. started with such humble Um you know non ambitious places and you know the Facebook Was just An app to Check out girls and guys, you know, at Harvard, right? And The irony for me is that I I've I've found that my career has gone in these waves and and maybe Some of your other Founders have had this experience too. Yeah, I've Started in a very Humble. Place of I just want to get to Any Any product market fit. Had bigger success than I imagined I would have. In my first two companies, Freeloader and Support.com. They both started with Very very Small, humble premise. And then afterwards felt like now I can do anything. And I know Elon has is the exception to the rule. Part of it is I think he can raise the three. magical unlimited amounts of capital which helps. But And he does not start in humble places at all. But For the rest of us mortals. I'd say that We tend to After success. be feel the need to do something bigger the next time. That's human instinct, and we want to be more ambitious. And so When I got to try but I saw Social networking and LinkedIn was just starting and I saw how big The opportunity was I tried to do everything with Tribe, it was really ambitious and I didn't pick one use case and there was multiple inside tribe. That worked. The tribes the the idea of these urban Tribes. Work. People loved it. Para ahí It's too ambitious. And so we failed. And then I was so humbled and I was in this abyss we can talk about. For so long. And I was so Just Desperate to get out of that abyss. By the time I got to Zinga, I did something that was embarrassingly small. I mean To be forty one. multi time successful founder that could go do something important in the world. And what did I do? I made A Facebook app. like a poker game. Not even a Facebook app, I mean a poker game. It was People thought I had no dignity. I mean, people were like Mark There's so much you could do in the world. But I Was I'd say My my Ambition Came down to like Uh A thousand. foot altitude, you know, not a hundred thousand foot. And and that was The key to that being successful and And I see this with It's just so hard. I see it with so many product founders and And it almost gives a new founder an advantage over a multi time successful founder because We have too much rope to hang ourselves. It's too easy to raise money and Recruit teams. against a big vision before we've gotten to product market fit. But the world doesn't care About your resume. Yeah. That's the good news for everyone watching. Like everyone has the same Chance and in a lot of ways. If you're in a more humble place, you have you have a better opportunity. So I The paradox is The more ambitious you are. Yeah. the the more humble you should be and the the smaller place you should be willing to start. One of your uh insights along these lines is that This is your advantage as a startup. is to be less ambitious because Azok. needs to go really big because the revenue is already so high. Anything they take on needs to be many billion dollar business opportunity. And as a startup, you don't need to do that. And And this is how you end up discovering some of the biggest ideas in the end. Yeah. Yeah. Being willing to pursue these little threads. When they're flaky, when they're They're not a business when there's so much earlier and and so many of The successful companies today, you know, started there. Yeah, is there an example that comes to mind when'cause Yeah, what's like an what's a what's a company or two that started very unambitious. I love the story of Bolt dot new. That really blew up last year. I loved it so much I cold mailed the founder because I was just so impressed with Yeah. And You know, they They twiled in obscurity. on something that they were into and then they Open sourced it. I think they We're barely able to keep going with commercial development. And then they had this realization one day of wait a second, if we take these Uh web stacks. virtual machine that we've In making work on the web, but we actually Add that to And AI coding Co pilot. We now have something That's better than what anybody else has. And And I I think that was just A great story that He They were passionate about one thing and you know, and they stuck with it. Yeah. Eric was on the podcast. We talked about that. Oh he was? So impressed. Um in a lot of ways Slack also, you know Was Humbled Stuart. keeps trying to start game companies. And Those turn into Unexpected bigger Hit companies. Um we'll see what he does next. He now has probably so much capital he could Just keep doing a game company this time. Try again to unhumble. Go big. Yeah. But each time, right? So he started a Mm. Big. Uh you know, idea for like the the mass market MO, which I've also loved, but really difficult. And they were humbled in that enough to say Okay, well wait, there's this little teeny thing that our engineers use. Let's build a product around that. And It takes Mm. It really takes A A really attuned Curious humble. Founder to to call the ball on that. I mean It's I can't imagine I mean I I can imagine, I guess, I've been there. How hard it is. When You've got investors and team and everybody going in one direction. And you have to we have to express confidence as founders. Whether or not we have Actual confidence inside. We that's Part of I think the dissonance of this. How do you express confidence? How do you stay in a place of intellectual honesty? А до вистати. And transparent. And not rattle our team. You know, how do you And I've I'm still learning. I had I had people I er on the side of transparency And honesty and Yeah, I Being authentic. And I burn out people in that process and I I did it Zinga and I have Since Because You know, people will say The the negative critique I'm working on me is Oh, working for Mark is like third grade soccer and every Monday he comes in Excited about a different idea. And and they're not wrong. But Where I can get better at this, maybe. Is You know If if we can If we can build Uh A culture with our team that says Okay. We are ambitious. We're so ambitious that we're not going to hold on to a B plus, even if we could get funding, even if it has Some traction. We we have a North Star. That we are going not going to stop until we find product market fit against our North Star. And this isn't it. And it and it's gonna take courage on our part and hey Let's look around the room. Is everyone ambitious enough to do this? Where do you want to Peel off and go. join someone else who's already A rocket ship. Which I That's a fair career. But But I think that that's to me the real founder mode. Is Can you have the courage to Two. To tell your team and your investors that This isn't it. That's uh that's exactly where I wanted to go. Uh which is this other piece of advice you give, which is kill hope before hope kill you. Talk about just what that is,'cause uh so much of your advice is kill your bad ideas quickly. So just kinda talk about that and then uh I'm really curious to know when you kind of what it takes to realize an idea is back. When do you decide, okay, this would be plus, let's move on. I don't know if I get credit for, you know Making up that quote. But I love it. Kill hope before hope kills you. It's There's a difference between Belief and hope. Help. Is Confidence without Basis. Hope is Just You know, it's It's a prayer. But it's But it's it's not It's not founded in Anything that your your lived experience It's not founded in your experience with your product, your experience with people Experiencing your product and the data and And And I think that founders and teams keep going With The hope that This next release is going to do something magical. And I think that the best product makers I like to say they're collecting winnings. They're not making bets. They already know. You know. If talk to Brian Chesky about his launches He already knows. that he has a hit. He's not launching it to find out. If people like it. And I talk about the difference between Launching an MVP, a minimum viable product and a maximum launchable product. Because If If we're going off hope. We're getting to this MVP. minimum viable. That the viable is the the word we gotta Kill along with hope. Because Viable is where hope comes from. Right? If it's viable, it might make it. Right. And there's a difference between Get in the market early, learn. You're you're putting a product out. that you're gonna learn from And you're putting a product out. that you're gonna launch that you think You believe not hope is going to be a hit. It's really important. To be crisp. And to make that distinction. And and AI is is a dangerous tool today. It's so powerful that it's dangerous. It's so powerful that it means We can get to a viable product. In much less time and money. Then it took maybe three months instead of three years. And that's a dangerous drug because It means That Yeah. What I thought would happen where we be today is that people would be using AI to build these like Incredible testing machines. failure machines that are testing I like to say more ideas in a week. than your industry tests in a year. How are you testing a hundred ideas a day? Instead of one in three months. I think AI is being used more to build one idea in three months. than a hundred ideas. You know In a day. What would it look like? I like to say We should build it completely wrong. before we know it's the right product. So build it wrong before you know it's right. And If you could build it right, great. But don't be slowed down by that. Because if we start off If we say Okay. What what can I believe today? I believe this is the wrong product. What are you gonna do differently because you believe it's the wrong product? You are not going to waste three months building the wrong product. Oh, I'd rather waste a day or a week building the wrong product. But the point of what I'm building is to learn. So Is it good enough to get signal and to test my idea? And I think we can usually Pull that apart and test those pieces in the wrong way. It's so often it could be an ad. I cannot believe How many times a team Hasn't even tested ads. for their product before they go and put in the market's an afterthought. And it was so often at Zinga, it blew my mind. I mean Give you one story from Zinga. When we were launching our first expansion pack for Farmville, which became a mass these became massive business drivers for us. Um It was I think it was Farmville. Um English countryside or something. The team. Okay, we have a ten million dollar ad budget. And we're gonna start running Ads before the launch. Like wait. You have twenty five, thirty million people a day using your product. But you're going to put ads somewhere else. For coming soon. You have these people engaged. What if You just Put something on the game board. And and what if You don't just start your product marketing. You're still doing product testing to see what gets the most heat. What if you start putting different art forms of your English countryside. Locked. On the game board. And you just see how many clicks you get. And You just start Testing. The look, the feel, the marketing message. And at the same time, when people click on it, it says Coming soon. Click here. To be a a pre user. You'll click here to get access. Two weeks before anybody else. And It turned out. Everybody clicked on it, right?'Cause it's a change on your game board. And it both gave us direction on What was the right marketing and the right variant of the product. But The unintended consequences was We started selling keys to people for you and a friend. And we ended up selling nineteen million dollars worth of keys. to get early access to You know, the new expansion pact. And so We took something that was going to be Afterthought advertising, try to drum up interest in this product. And turn it into something that gave us signal and direction on the product. And Revenues. And and so often You know, you You can have You know, this is an existing product, but you can turn something you could turn something that was going to be marketing into a kind of scarcity And you know. Heat driving. feature, something that could drive revenues or or something else that matters. So The way we should be using AI. is as a testing machine, a failure machine. In a way to Vib code, clod code. But But build. Yeah. You know the the lowest possible cycled version of your product that you can get. Signal back on. Awesome. I wanna ask about something that I think might be on people's minds as they hear you talk. For a lot of product builders when they think zinga, they're not like This is the product I wanna build. Yeah, and there's a spectrum. Of all of products you guys have built. There's like Uh Far Farmville and Cityville and all these things that I think P Turn some people off. Then there's like poker. Words with friends, mafia wars that I think people are like, Oh, that's amazing. I love that. Can just speak to that? Sure. I I think if I'm unpacking that When you say Yeah. That the pribes turn people off. It's it's funny you say that because Farmville and Cityville. were Our biggest hits. In terms of Installs, engagement, retention, revenues. Um No. Words of Friends and poker were more enduring because they made the transition to mobile. And the other games. Didn't It's a whole other story. But But I think the part you're getting to is that Zinga was in a lot of ways a victim of its own success that It was Our games were so viral and took over the feeds on Facebook so much that The Your friend who was playing it started to bug you. as a person not playing it. And And That's That's fair. What I would say I think what's misunderstood about Zinga from the beginning and why we succeeded and we created Uh Eight. massive hits out of ten mass large game launches. We had a very high hit rate. It wasn't that we were good at virality. It was that We we were focused on two things that I think we did better than anybody else. And we had lots of competitors Lots and copying and We still managed to keep winning. And Spammier or better at virality. First, we had this core mission and focus around connecting the world through games and Bing Gordon and I kept coming back to this idea that I love and I and I want Your founders Product makers. Watching this to to join me in thinking about which is How can we add more dimensionality? I love this idea of It's it's what I call a bulbeat. It's It's How do I take this thing that's kinda gotten boring and wrote? poker or whatever. How do I add a whole new dimension to it? And by adding social, by adding real identities By giving you this You're doing social networking, you're in this cocktail party. And now we're giving you a way to actually meet new people or improve your relationships. In a game. What The reason why People So many, especially middle aged women. Love Farmville and these games was because They they had this kind of hobby, but they weren't doing it alone. And they were Doing it with their good friends, making new friends. And in the game Our most successful features were co op play. There there are things that Let you Do gifting and do things. Of you know, value to your For your friends. And so We called the games. Invest, Express, and Connect. You could Do something that was You are being seen as creative. People don't wanna be creative, they wanna feel creative. So we're letting you Feel creative, look creative to people. It's what Mid Journey does for me today. And then we were letting you So so you were expressing yourself and then you were connecting with people around it. So that was the first thing and then at If you think at a mechanical metric level. Our core metric was retention. Not virality. We grew We outlasted everybody because we had the best retention. I think we were the only consumer company in the world to track day three sixty five retention. I don't think anyone tracks it today. I talk about in the book. I think it's a gift to your founders. I believe that the most valuable companies in the world well statistically this is true They have the highest day three sixty five retention. No. Can you build against day three sixty five retention? Yes. You we can't wait till day three sixty five. We can find early indicators. Of a positive day three hundred sixty five and a negative day three hundred sixty five retention. If you have Low D one, low D thirty, you will Probably not have in Ohio day three sixty five. So those Track. You know, those are correlated. But you can have the opposite. You could have very high Day thirty and a zero day three sixty five, which is most products and if you don't Think about why someone would use in a year If you don't have that mentality It turns out. When someone tries our product, they Think that way too. they kinda think is this worth investing in? Whether it's a game or a camera It's Am I gonna use this in a year? Should I Tell my friends about this or You know, is this Should I bother investing? Should I bother giving it information about me or whatever? And I think there's a mentality to that, and I like to say viral based companies there's been many You know Be real. There's right, we've seen these. They're sinking speed boats. They're trying to Drive faster than they're sinking. Right. They're trying to get more people in. You can either go faster. Bail water out faster. Yeah, we just try to Or plug the hole in the boat. And You know, or build a better boat that doesn't have a hole. But But yeah, so we we were tracking both in our games in our network what what was the retention and we were We were really constantly thinking About Yeah. About That and And I think The two things to take away from Zinke success. In my opinion that I hold Is is to have a strong innovation vision that translates to what your teams are doing every week. Yeah. And we even built A metric. 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That's vanta dot com slash Lenny. Let's talk about building a consumer social app. Very Very few people. I've successfully done it and built something durable. Uh we talk about this on the podcast a bunch. It's like nothing works in consumer like it works for a little bit and then dies. And you've you maybe built m more social consumer products than anyone. Like there's like a dozen that have worked. Uh A AI obviously changes the game. In in theory. What do you think needs to be true for someone for something to work again in today's world? It's probably Equally surprising to you how little we're seeing In social And And and consumer in general. It seems like people have kind of given up on The idea that that A social app could take off or be viral, and I see them every so often. And they've given up. For good reason because nothing's proven, nothing's working. So I I like to Think first, is there latent demand? If if Just because a category doesn't exist today. It doesn't mean that we don't want as consumers, in fact. The best opportunities are usually the opposite. And In two thousand seven when I started Zinga. Video gaming was a twenty three billion dollar business. But I had stopped playing games. I didn't know anyone who played games. It was like not even a top ten activity on the web. And I thought There's a latent demand. I love games. I love playing my family. But I can't get people to play games with me. And it's too much investment. It's too hard. It it was crawling across broken glass to get someone to play a game with you. You literally I I Got my nephews. Who are Intense gamers Two. Play Rise of Nations with me. And we set up Two machines for them and two for me, and we had Face time going on a machine and then the game and we were on a game server. And we did that one time. I was like, that is a lot of effort. And It was fun, but we did it once. And I said, My premis was Okay. I believe this could be and should be a mass market activity. I believe adults want to give themselves permission to play, but I gotta make it So accessible. So Cheap in terms of what it asked for them free. Not just free even. Which it wasn't. It was sixty dollars to go buy a game. So I made it free and I said, I'm going to make it a game you already know. Three clicks and you're in. And I'm gonna ask. five to fifteen minutes of you. You know, to to do this. And and you're gonna trip over it. It's a breadcrumb somewhere. You're not gonna Like say you We don't go to the comic book store, but if the comics were in the newspaper, we'd read them. So I believed there was a latent demand and in fact Today, you know, gaming is a two hundred and eighty billion dollar industry. And I actually think there's latent demand again. I don't play games. No one I know plays games other than my Nieces and nephews. And yet it's this big a business. So I actually think There's another massive growth waiting. In games'cause they're this big and it's this boring. And adults ha aren't doing it. Or they must be some, it's very big, but None I know. So So okay, so social. Um and consumer. I believe that we have. Beyond a latent demand for social We are being social, right, online. We are on Snapchat and Instagram and And TikTok. But I believe it's it's lost the adrenaline. I think a lot about adrenaline, like Is there a heat in it? Like Are you excited to go get on Instagram or Or do you feel a little bit like you're eating potato chips? Like are these Positive calories or negative calories? Um or empty calories in the middle. And I think One interesting thing I we looked at NPS, net promoter scores. And we saw Dead. when people quit Facebook and quit інstagram They went from a plus thirty five to a negative thirty five. There's People have a feeling like They just quit smoking. People are proud to tell you they're not on Instagram, right? They're not missing the party. They're like Whoa, I got off it. So I think So I think All that's to say I think It's the biggest unexplored opportunity. there is on the Internet. I mean I think I feel very confident that someone is going to reinvent This social experience. for the agentic AI Age. But how are they gonna do it? You know, I would guess That they're going to give us Productivity again. That they're going Part of what we got, people forget. Facebook gave us massive social productivity. We were able to stay in the loop. with Three hundred or a thousand friends. LinkedIn gave us massive productivity and they still do. But They started to move away from that productivity into a realm of Wasting time. 'Cause they want it to engage more and have more ads and and less LinkedIn, but They might have ads now, but But definitely, you know, Instagram Had TikTok envy. So You know, they started doing that. And so I think there is A new step function of productivity that we could In that experience that Our agents are Letting us stay even more in the loop with the people we care about or you know, but not wasting our time as much. So And I'll also say this. There's a side of this I call this social thing the cocktail party. Okay, that's That's the big uh instinct vein for me. And I think about that cocktail party. And I think where is that happening or where does it wanna happen? And how How do we add things to the cocktail We'd love to host the cocktail party. And if we're not, we'd love to be at it. We know it when we see a great cocktail party. You know it. You feel it, you're like, Oh, I'm so glad I'm here and it's moves from like obligatory I'm at this party, it's the birthday party. To Almost like greed. Like I love this party. I'm Love the people I'm meeting. And what do you get at a great cocktail party? You often get great leads. And so That cocktail party that For me, it started with Napster. When All of a sudden all of us were connected to each other and the great lead was a music file. But then Friendster, Facebook LinkedIn. What we were getting was better lead generation. That was better productivity for our time. Before that we would go to Google for a lead or Craigslist. And it was a lot of Noise the signal. And now we're like, Oh my God, I could get on Friendster and find a date and it's actually A good lead. I I had a good date on Friendstart. Um So What I would say to people is like Look. If you want to reinvent social, look for where the cocktail is or you could host. And then think about How is lead generation happening? It might sound weird when I say lead gen, but What is LinkedIn? LinkedIn star with Lee Gen. All the productivity, the value started In the a utility in being in this cocktail party. Today And by the way. With Zinga I said, I'm gonna go to the cocktail party. Everyone's hanging out on social networks. I'm gonna drop games in the middle. And give them a new dimension. to network in the games'cause they wanna be on Facebook. I wanna give them more to do. Today. We're all hanging out. On On our GPT But there's no cocktail party. So My my Easter egg to people is It is it's a It's a quiet, lonely cocktail party like the web was before social networking. And My challenge to your Listeners is Figure out how to make it rowdy. figure out how to make that cocktail party social and socially productive. And you will probably You know. Find gold there. I want to come back to your thread on Your your question was How do you How do you know when an idea is a B plus? Right. Yeah. Okay. I love the question on Well how do you know if it's a B plus? And what I would say to you is How do you know if you're with the right person. Like you're dating what was your experience dating? And My experience has been That When I'm with The right person I know it. I'm not asking Is this the right person? I'm like Fuck yeah. I I Love this person. This is my person. And that's the best feeling ever. And I hope Everyone. Can experience that. When you're With the A minus person. You're with the B plus. You're asking, could this be the one You're like you're And You know. Osho said if you're torn between two paths, they're both wrong. You know, you have feet in two canoes. If you're asking whether or not your product is an A, it's not an A. And You're you're full of hope. You hope it's an A. It doesn't mean it's not a You might not have the chance to turn that into an A. But the first point of intellectual honesty is to say Okay, it's not. And then well how do you know How are you getting validation that it's not? You don't have the validation that it is. When you have lightning in a bottle When you have True. Everything works. It's Anecdotally, you love your product. You're addicted to it. You show it to friends and they love it. Your metrics show that it works. Mm. Did we have to ask if GPT was Yeah. Do we say oh Is GPT? I'm not sure. You know. We're like No, I'm fucking living on that and it's making me dream of new things to do. Right. So I'd say Yeah. The hard part about this is You know? What do you What do you do with a B plus? First can we be intellectually honest that it is a B plus. And then What do we do with a B plus? Do we just kill it? And start all over again. Do we use it to learn? The power is knowing it's a B plus. That that's the first point. Is Okay. This is not it. Now what do I do with that? Is it a way to learn to Do I can I Do I see examples that are near this that are it? Can I find anything proven or near proven? When When we realize it's not Yeah. We we look for more things to do and It's such a hard lesson. Two weeks ago I pulled the plug. on my dot earth project. For like the fourth time. Okay. I've been building my version of the metaverse. For twenty years. It's what led me to Zinga. I call the metaverse that I want life of the speed of play. We're getting closer and closer to that anyway with AI. And by the way, I define the metaverse, I give Reed Hoffman credit for this definition as Blurring the lines between the virtual and the real. And that is where our lives are going anyway. So we're getting more and more metaverse in. It's not being in this other escape to immersive World. It's It's it the virtual and the real completely blur. Together. And But I kept coming at it from the game side. And I went native, not in the good way. You know, I got So into wanting to prove I could build this experience, that I was building this game engine. Web browser based game engine. And I was not getting a product market fit. I was being too ambitious. I was not. Going for a small, small idea is going for a really big idea. And it was really hard and I pulled the plug on it. After Four years in and twenty five million dollars in just this one Version of it. And in the last two weeks since then. I've been more inspired around ideas than I have been in Four years. So There is power in pulling the plug on a B plus and even more, you know, on a D. There's a whole uh discussion I want to have about the abyss, which you talk a lot about in the book about how that's such a source of good ideas, but I wanna touch on distribution. Just as we're on this thread. Something that's come up a lot on this podcast is just how With AI making it so easy to build stuff. One of the biggest challenges becomes distribution. Always been a challenge, always been hard. Harder than ever because there's so much happening in the market constantly. There's so much trying to get your attention. All the channels are full paid and S What's your just like advice to founders? What do you think needs to be true for a comp for a startup to break out'cause it's so hard now. Let's start with Talking about Consumer distribution, which Yeah. I understand better. Yes. Um There's a One question we gotta back up. And really Explore Which is Is AI a new platform? And I would argue That it is not yet. A new platform. It is An important technology. We have a new kind of portal to that. In GPT or whatever chat we use, AI chat. It's not in my mind a platform. A platform in the traditional Sense of it was A hardware platform. Definitely not a hardware platform at the consumer side yet. People are Trying to Explore that, but it is not yet. And then it became at least A an interface platform, whether it was a Windows interface or a browser interface or a social network. That opened up. And And in the case of mobile, it was both hardware and an interface. We We're not at that point. Yet. I believe we will get there. I don't know how. I've Ideas But We're not there yet, and it's important to acknowledge that. And say we're still in the mobile and web era we still use a browser Uh and even though we're in This Chat app. It is not a platform for other apps and experiences and developers. It could be I hope it becomes one. But it's not yet. And That We're kinda like halfway to a platform. I we are in a point of discovery. New technologies that break through at the consumer level. Unlock discovery. That's really important. Discovery means We when we first got our phones. We were installing new apps all the time. Now we don't ever install new apps. You know, the average App installs per user per month is zero. So It's really important to think about that. Not only are we not in discovery But Even when we are We don't it doesn't stick. You know, there were something like forty thousand new games launched last year in the app store. And zero You know, became Top ten hits and zero even sustained top twenty five or fifty. So Your odds are bad. Okay. So It's not It's It's not an ideal you know, moment. To be You know, you you can't launch Consumer. right now with with high confidence. And that's just something that we have to acknowledge, and it makes Consumer and consumer categories like social and games. Almost not investable. They're still getting investment. But it's very Hard. Uh it's much easier, you know, to be pro Sumer or Enterprise now. Um, but for good reason because We're seeing those companies. scale revenue ARRs. Um very quickly. So I do think. It's a great time to be working on consumer ideas. And you asked about distribution. Distribution is just So crucial and core to Any consumer any business idea, but any consumer idea. And It it can't be an afterthought. It's not I'm gonna build the best mouse trap and they're gonna come. distribution has to be part of your product and part of baked into the strategy deeply. And And proven from the beginning. And if you're just building this product and hoping they will come Hoping it'll spread virally, or word of mouth. You know, that's Hope strategy. You know Not a belief strategy. And It doesn't mean you shouldn't Keep Experimenting And now is a great time to experiment. And in fact It'll be a hundred times more expensive. To try to get the same things. in the market in a year'cause it'll there'll be a hundred times more noise and once There is distribution, there'll be A flood of competition, but But When distribution is this broken It is even more core to your product. And your strategy. And I I think we're seeing many more successful companies that find a pro Sumer approach, that find they go after their power users, their whales. The people who care enough to find it. Care enough to spend money on it up front. To sustain a business. You know Long before We can get out to consumer Mm. There there is a great Idea that Um I got to That Gary Tan had that I'll repeat here'cause I loved it so much this week. Yeah. If we get in the mindset Of Basically Uh intelligence on tap. Free tokens. And if we think that The the amount of tokens We're buying today. You know that Will basically be free. In a year or two. Token. You know, supply is going to go up so much. Our demand will too. But If today we start building re imagining consumer services. Based on Free tokens. I think that's such an interesting innovation zone and it Could sound like a dot com business plan when I remember ordering pig ears for my dog Zinga. And and wanting to send thank you notes to the V Cs because they were cheaper than at Petco, right? That's not a good business plan. So you know, giving away tokens at a loss isn't a good business plan. But it might be in a phenomenal business. Because What the dot com thing had wrong was the price of pig ears wasn't gonna come down or delivery wasn't gonna come down. But the price of tokens will be. I think that's another kind of Easter egg of an insight. That I'm intrigued by And I think I think Founders are going to do something really interesting with it that Because games. Don't work freemium games and freemium apps. that have to go and hit The AI the Even if you wanted to spend on it, you're hitting token limits, right? So Getting around that today. Might unlock. Really interesting Innovation. Another Easter egg thought on The social cocktail party. I love the idea. Of The agent being in the middle of and brokering our social relationships and getting back to that lead gen, dating, jobs. Yeah. General listings. But I love the idea that the agent has our context and knows my context and your context. Yeah. This membrane, I call it the social membrane, this intelligent membrane of trust. And it It gets smarter and smarter at knowing when to Change dynamically change that trust. Or change that attention level that it's gonna take from us. Like a Great chief of staff. And And it could share less information with both of us than it knows. It could be You're a Marin and I'm like, Lenny, let's hang out. You're like, Mark, I love that. So okay, let's have our social secretaries work on that. There's going to be an asymmetry in your interest and my interest in any given weekend and hanging out. And how do we Broker that without hurting Yeah, one of our Feelings or you know going into There's some really interesting spaces that the That the AI and the agent Can broker between us. In in ways that start to Give us both Productivity. They they find ways for us to get together without Going without Getting in You know. You see me on your calendar for Saturday and you wanted to be with your kids. I love all these ideas you're sharing. Like what I'm hearing there, there's this always this idea of why can't we just here's my calendar, here's your calendar, let's just find time. And like the issue there is you don't want to ever feel like You don't want to look like you're you got nothing going on and you're like the most boring person. Like you don't want the the other person to know. Yeah, exactly. Um and and even worse, you don't want it to to you don't want it to Schedule you for a meeting, you know, that Just to close the loop on the distribution part. What I'm hearing is like we might be on the verge of a new distribution platform, a way to get out and for people to discover you. Uh it's not there yet. I I'm somewhere between belief and hope in this'cause I don't have enough evidence to believe it. And I'm it's a little more likely to me than just hope. I think right now there's a obvious race and competition around coding between the major L I think they're gonna get back to consumer M pro Sumer And developers' hearts and minds. And I think they are interested in developers' hopes and minds, but first they're competing on This coding front. But I think where we will get to in one way or another is That They're There will be some kind of There will be some kind of consumer facing platform. For For AI apps and agents. I I can see so many I can see so many consumer facing agency services. That Make so much. Sense to me That I think consumers will want. But They're not gonna get it because it's If it's just buried in I doubt they're gonna get it buried in the mobile app store. And I think it's going to be in open AI's interest. Claude. Grock. Um to To see these apps. consumer facing agency service apps. happen and see them be successful. With their LM baked in and the more it's uniquely instantiated to open AI, The more it Drives their consumer value proposition. One example that My my Number one is my Easter egg on this is I Think there should be An agentic Travel agent. So Perfect example to me of a place where I think there is Latent demand. And the only reason we don't have it is because it doesn't make economic sense to offer it to us'cause we won't Pay enough for it. Is a travel agent. I believe if I offered you A free twenty four seven travel agent. That was always there for you, knows your travel context, knows you. And we'll actually Book not just book travel. But I think the most valuable part is when you're in the middle of the travel A trip. Be ready to Rebook your flight and Be on top of you know, your travel logistics as they're happening and often failing. And I think that's valuable to all of us. But not available to all of us because Travel agents. couldn't make a living. They they weren't getting enough Commissions and we weren't ready to pay the enough. So They We're The Internet has grown through us getting a better deal. But I think the the next area of growth probably will include deals, but I think it's going to be about getting amazing services. And and that's My prime example. But If someone built the best travel agent Today You know. Maybe we'd find out about it, but it's it's a it's a tough road. But if If there was specifically baked into Open AI Or Claude. And was a Gave me a A real clear reason that I'm getting value from my GPT beyond. Yeah, there's there's a lot of generic value I get through AI chat today that I'm having More and more trouble. Differentiating. And it's just I don't even know anymore if I'm Asking a question to Claude or or to GPT. So they At some point And that's why they They're differentiating themselves right now. On coding. And there's real value and the That's an amazing Business. But But they're not differentiating themselves very much at the consumer level. Yeah. To me like the question is are they each just gonna do it or why do they need anyone to do it if they or building this A GI that can just do all the things. So I think it's gonna be interesting to see if they just wanna eat the entire market of everything where they Play nice with other startups. Yeah, that that is going to be interesting. And and look, we there's We can see past examples with Microsoft you know, Microsoft was a brutal Monopoly. They were a brutal platform. You know they They ate everything around them. And And then you know with Us you know, we saw it on Facebook, you know, they The two areas that they just didn't care about. going into was music,'cause it was really painful with IP rights and games. Because they didn't want to like higher artists. Uh but everything else they did absorb. I'm gonna go in a different direction and touch on all these really Amazing nuggets of advice. For scaling company Managing people, hiring people, working with people. I want to just kinda touch on a bunch of these. Um One is this idea of making everybody a CEO. Your company. Talk about That Lesson. All my management principles I got to through desperation. I don't like managing people. I say every day you're managing people is a day of work. And It's a necessary evil for us as product makers because We can't abdicate. And just have someone else be CEO. Because All sudden the priorities get messed up and You know Teams don't have to listen to us and We're now feedback, not direction. So That's a feeling path. So we've we have to be a CEO. But then the question is, how do we get to spend the most time doing what we love and the least time doing what we don't? The the bigger principle to me That I started to get to was that oh, I'm like all of management is just how do we get people to do the right thing we're not when we're not in the room. So I was like okay, if if I give them a hill to take And if I make Them a CEO. Make them a real CEO. I mean they They have operating control, degrees of freedom. to take that hill however they want. And they can give me a plan, a budget. And then do whatever they want within that What I found was I didn't have to manage them. S They're not coming back to me with questions and certain kinds of people really want to be a CEO. What I also found was It was incredibly motivating for people. It's motivating to me. You know, I always say Uh I'm a team player as long as I'm running the team. Um So Can I hire other people like that? And and I I like to say I was a frustrated expert witness when I work for other people. And those are the best people to turn into a CEO. They're kind of a little bit of a know it all. They think They have the right answers. And they're we're gonna find out if they do. And So we let them actually be a CEO and they have all this pent up demand to actually go and prove that they were right. And And that's a beautiful thing. So So yeah this I love this principle of make everyone a CEO. And we're kind of going there in Silicon Valley with this idea of get rid of middle management. You know, Brian Armstrong's Saying everyone should be an individual contributor. Everyone should be managing That's really kinda to me the best CEO is like The best player at the position And is doing the thing they're great at and they're not wasting their time on management. You mentioned this idea of an expert witness. And you also have this uh nugget of uh of advice of staying close to the metal. I love this. general advice, talk about what you mean there, why that's important for someone in their career. They go together. We start our careers. You know, in our twenties. very close to the metal, meaning we are individual contributors and we are working on getting the primary data and building the actual product usually. We're in the trenches. And The people in the trenches are usually closest to the data. Closest to Probably the right answer. But they're also usually furthest from making the decision. And that's what I call the expert witness syndrome because You're called to the stand by the adults and you plead for What you Passionately believe is the right answer. And then you're excused and then they make a decision. And then you have to deal with the consequences and You know, disagree and commit. What if What if I'm disagreeing because I'm fucking right. And now I'm committing To clean up your mess because you're wrong. And That's why many of us become founders,'cause we just are sick of being in that position. You're also Closer to the metal and When you go become a CEO, when you become a founder Part of The The paradox of it that that I believe we have to be careful about is that we stay close to the metal, and I believe The best product CEOs. are in The minutia of the details. You know. All the stories about Steve Jobs. I was so impressed when I heard that he insisted on picking out the carpeting and the Conferences, you know when Mm. I tried to have that same mentality. Oh. Micromanaging The really small pixel level details that matter and I had a great conversation with the founders of Discord. And they they came to this conclusion too that they needed to actually be an inverted pyramid and they said We realized That We outsource, we delegate The most important product decisions the UX to our least experienced people and they're doing this every day. And we We decided to turn that upside down and say We as founders Need to be Kind of the first and last mile. For the product and we have to be The ones who bless Ar our best use of our time. Is Making these minute decisions that change the product user experience, and so to me. That's being close to the metal. Brian Chesky in doing things in non scalable ways and doing it himself with the team by hand. Yeah. There's so many stories about Jeff. Bezos and Zach of The thing that mattered most. They would go and Work. you know, two days a week deeply with the team on it. And It makes sense. You were the best. product maker in the company, we want you on the field. You know, we we want to put you on the ice. We don't want you to spend your time Talking to investors and managing and scaling. Yeah, uh Elon famous for this too. You have this uh line in the book along these lines. Micromanagement is beautiful. You should micromanage as long as you can. I believe that and and I I did that building Zinga to a fault. I mean we we got to a point that I had all the way to fifty employees. We had a stand up call that would go on for two hours. And I I had everyone's name in a spreadsheet and I had what they were supposed to do yesterday and what they're gonna do today. And I go through name by name and say Okay, did you get that done? Can everyone else verify they got that done? Okay, what are you gonna do today? And I completely micromanaged. But we were Much more effective. And then I I Yeah, I kept micromanaging things as as I'm like If you can be in the room Be in the room, assuming that you are the best player. So Yeah, I I I I think it's less contrarian saying it now than it was twenty years ago, but Like When I was building Zinga we had to apologize for things like micromanaging or You know, expecting Uh you know, massive results from our teams. And and I think I'm happy to see that that's becoming Kind of. accepted as more it's closer to best practices today, I think. But Um But my point about like Okay. Management is get people to do the right thing when you're not in the room. The first principle is be in the room if you can be. As much as you can be. And then Only Delegate. When You get to the point that you You can't possibly be in all these rooms at the same time. And then All these management principles are just different. strategies to try to get people to do the right thing when you're not there. And I love these non scalable Ideas that actually scale Your skill what you're trying to do as a product maker in the right way. And one of the ones I love is this idea of tech assistance. And and this idea of a teaching hospital. How do you pass the vampire blood? Of you to other people. Like You have this burning mission and passion around your product. How do you spread that to other people? and have them spread in the organization. The first thing is put them in the room with you. Like So the idea of this teaching hospital was Okay, I'm just gonna put as many people as I can in the room while I'm doing these product management meetings. And Have them. My Passion and ideas and approach. You know, spread to all of them too. And And that worked. And then Grab someone from the ranks. Make them your tech assistant. Have them just Follow you around for six months or twelve months. Make Make it the mini me. The person who is you in your twenties Who was The expert witness, a little bit of a know it all. Um And And start Having them follow you around to pick up Learn absorb everything you do. and give them projects to test them. And And then Hopefully. you've created a mini me that you can now put in at in a much bigger role. Somewhere else and In fact. Andy Jassy at Amazon, everyone on the C staff. used to be someone who'd been the tech assistant. It actu that idea actually scales and you kinda get it for free. I love this phrase of transference your vampire play. Oh man. Um, maybe one last uh nugget from the book along these lines is you have this line of just the number one job of a CEO is to be right. Talk about that. Well that's another one that I stole from Bezos. Um But If if I gotta pick one if I get to pick one thing That you do as CEO, I'm gonna pick That you're right. So Even if You don't You know Even if you don't operate the ship or the factory that well. I'd rather that you picked the right product, the right strategy Then You were phenomenal execution or inspiring people or managing because You know. Being in the right body of water matters more than the right boat. And I A great boat in, you know. I Dead late bed, you know, isn't going anywhere. Yeah. So Uh. I look for that in people. Like Are they right? Like that's the best resume. I could see that you were right about something and And I look for that. In the team and Less Do I like your style or approach or Yeah. You're Yeah. Personality fit. I'm like I'll take I'll take misfits who are right. I'm like I want I want those really smart expert witnesses who are intellectually honest and And You know, the more people you have around you who You know, that's Yeah. Putting balls in the net. I wanna maybe end with a question about your kids. And parenting. I talked to a bunch of people that know you well in preparation for this conversation, and every single person commented on just how wonderful a dad you are and how much time you put into You that part of your life? And a question I've been trying to ask folks that are are parents and great parents In this AI era. And there's a lot of stuff I wanna ask about, but let me start here it's just What's something that you are Teaching them or helping them develop that you think is gonna be important to them in this Crazy world we're we're entering of of AI. Thank you for asking about this. I It's I think my greatest role and job and And service to the world is Trying to grow. Good humans. It's like really, really put a lot into it and take it seriously and I get so much out of it. I I like to say I'm growing my best friends. Um And so far it's true. So there's a couple of principles that Philosophies that have Uh been important to me as a parent that I've Just Seen I do them naturally and I see that they work over time. The the first one for me is I have five kids. They're Every one of them is just Such A different version of a human and I have A special needs son Uh who's fairly extreme special needs. Um our new one year old baby uh has a gene mutation, and she actually may also end up being very neurodivergent. Um So You have this wide range. My my fifteen year old girls are They're twins and they're completely divergent from each other. This first principle that I've found is Meeting them where they are. And and And it's We kids I find We can kind of talk down to them. We could talk to them as kids. Um And it' or we can kind of treat them like adults and neither of those are right. It's like we gotta like find Engage with them at the altitude that they're Uh But as human to human and find The way to Do that. And then once we do that and meet them where they are. I think we can bring them to surprisingly sophisticated places that may be way beyond what where they're supposed to be you know, in that moment. Like My twins I started playing with math with them when they were really, really little. And then during the pandemic I taught daddy math because I saw that their school was not equipped To do online home schooling so I taught them and their friends daddy math. And I just try to teach them a math brain. I and I didn't know where they were supposed to be. They were in fifth grade. I just started. for them and their friends just trying to teach them How to approach math in a way that's fun and curious. And then I found out I We found out later I taught them all the way through eighth grade math. Um I didn't know it, they didn't know it, and that was cool. And then I'd say in the How does this apply in the age of AI and where we are I feel like we're at the end of this hundred year Cycle Of mass produced education, which was Get the most knowledge in, get everyone's averages up to the best place we can. Educate twenty million graduates a year or whatever number But it was factory produced. It was and it was four A certain kind of Work. First factories, then knowledge workers. You know. Knowledge working. Is going away. It's changing. But we're still cheating. Knowledge education. And I feel badly about it with my kids and What I've tried to do with my older kids is Teach them Have critical thinking. More than And and I say I don't care if you go to college. Which is a little hard for them'cause they're kind of Achievers. And Like I don't care if you go to college. What I care about is that You develop critical thinking and you find a way to be useful to people in the world. And my one daughter Carmen. Uh she's also neurodivergent. She has ADHD and dyslexia. And she created She created a brand of Sweatshirts. Called Comfy Fancy. Um And she also has created Uh A gathering, a grouping a group for Um neurodivergent middle school kids. called Neurosparkly. And And it's Taking this thing which should be a problem and a deficit. And it's Making it a way that she can connect and help a lot of other kids. So I'm proud to see that. I I've also What I'm The dissonance that I feel In this moment as a parent. Is that My kids Are in this educational system that is trying to prep them to get into a good college and to be a knowledge worker. And I know that game is over. And I know So so what do I want my kids doing? I w I try to teach them Two When When in a Look at the deeper the meta of what's going on. When an adult is trying to convince you of something. When a teacher has a point of view that you don't agree with? Try to understand why. What's their agenda? Where are they coming? What's their lived experience and how has that impacted it. So I'm trying to teach them to ask better questions, not no more answers. And and I think that's you know in And and I'd say in terms of how that spills into their online use and what I try to promote and discourage. It's I try promote how can you be generative in what you're doing and not consumptive. So What can you do online or offline that is generative, that is actually Putting something new out in the world. 'Cause that's how you're gonna get something back. And not consuming, not being a passive consumer of content and experiences and And Sometimes it works, and I see them doing that and then sometimes it doesn't, but Yeah, that's that's how I'm trying to Navigate this. I also tried to make it till they were sixteen with no phones, no smartphones. And I got to fourteen, I got them flip phones. And They had internships at Nyantic working on Pokemon Go. They built a first time user experience. It's really good. What that they were they I think used. But they had to get smartphones for that and they still have them and so So eve you know, I tried to make it and I didn't. No man. That's hilarious. Oh, and and I also I'll say one more thing. For my older girls. I keep a running Uh Google Doc of Life philosophies. And Anything I say to them as like a quote I say over and over I'm like okay, I'm gonna actually like write that up with stories. And I keep it in this document for them and who knows If they'll use it. They they do start to repeat some of them. So I know they read it. Um you know. One is Nothing's personal. Don't Don't ever take anything personal. And if You assume nothing's personal. You're probably right. nineteen out of twenty times and the twentieth time you probably handled it right because of that. So That's one, you know, and Don't be a victim. You know, the the world doesn't happen to you, it's happening around you. And Yeah, you're we're defined how we react to the world, not by the events that happen to us. So I'm trying to You know Give them these You know and And it's And um And they're teenagers with the older two and You know, and I'm in it and learning and And I've got two littles that Yeah, a one year old and a four year old who Sleep with me every night and Oh man. Yeah. You're busy. Uh I feel like it's clearly what your next book is gonna be is these life philosophies. I I I feel like these are useful for people, for human for adults, I mean. Yeah, I wanted to write a book on parenting. Saying everything Everything I know about parenting I learned from my dog Zinga. Because I had her before I had kids. And she was like a person And You know, I gave her clear boundaries and freedom and love in between And You know, she Uh. She believed that she was A person. So Is there anything else you wanted to share? Before we Wrap up. The thing that I've gotten It's resonated most in Writing in my book of life. For the last Thirty years. It took me a long, long time. It took me until I started Zinget forty one to finally Identify and articulate my why. And I think for all of us it's so important to get there and we might do for a long time before we actually can say the why. But I figured out That mine was they talk about in the book. Is I want to create an internet treasure. Like You know, when people say Mark, how do I know that you're going to work hard on this next thing or You know, you're post economic or You're a bored rich guy, or whatever. I'm like, Well I haven't done my thing yet. Like I like to Like what is What does our soul need to do before we die? Or at least To be in integrity with it. What do I need to be working on and know that I Gave everything I had against it. And it's to build an internet treasure. Which is a service. We can't remember life before or imagine life without. And I believe as product makers that that's the greatest ambition and the greatest thing that we can Offer the world and My friend Bing Gordon says, you know, one day those treasures will be in the Smithsonian. And And I think he's right. And You know, I think it is the greatest opportunity that we have as product makers in this era is to build those digital skyscrapers. that the next generation Can't believe anyone ever lived Without And So that's That's my ambition and why mm why I'm still like rubbing sticks together and Yeah. Uh Speaking of that, to help people build their own internet treasure Your book is coming out very soon, I think around the time this episode comes out. Uh tell people where to find it. Uh anything else you want to share about the book? Well You have a copy. I just got a copy. So somehow. So 'Cause you're important. Uh. We hope you read it twice. Um Give it out to a friend. Uh I would just say that Life and speed of play is My It's I'm trying to share my my playbook and philosophies. And I I'm hopeful that somebody Uh Will steal some of my ideas. And And take it further and and We're all kind of in a conversation and I love this podcast and and you hosting this cocktail party. And We're we're all trying to move Good. The philosophies and the craft of product making. ahead and and we're we're all learning As we go. And And I hope that my book uh can be something referenceable. And I hope it's Easy and fun to read because I have pain reading a lot of books. Mm. It is actually very easy to read. It's like very not that long and it's very uh bite sized. So great job with that. Oh good. Um Mark, thank you so much for being here. Thanks for sharing all this wisdom with us. Thanks this is This is fun. This is actually I've I've done some podcasts about the book. And I didn't want to talk about the content of the book on most of the podcasts and on this one I did. I'm trying to I'm trying to only go into places, you know, that That I wanna talk about. You know. Which I tried to do in the book. So there we go. Thank you for Inspiring me to want to talk about product. Yeah. My pleasure. Thanks, Mark. Bye everyone. Thank you so much for listening. If you found this valuable, you can subscribe to the show on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite podcast app. Also, please consider giving us a rating or leaving a review, as that really helps other listeners find the podcast. You can find all past episodes or learn more about the show. at Lenny's podcast dot com. See you in the next episode.