Reid Hoffman: Better Decisions, Fewer Mistakes Transcript from https://podmenti.com/t/9c57e5eee79d8dde we go through life making decisions. Should we date person X or Y or get married to them? Should we stay here or should we move? What job should we choose? What college should we choose? One of the things that I think is a general thing for all every professional. And then especially all leaders to really orient on is How do you make decisions fast and well? is one of the central things you're doing. When you're Doing Maybe all jobs, certainly all white collar jobs, certainly all white collar leadership jobs. Welcome to the Knowledge Podcast, I'm your host, Shane Parrish. The goal of this show is to master the best of what other people have already figured out. To do that, I sit down with people at the top of their game to uncover the useful lessons you can learn and apply in life and business. If you're listening to this, you're missing out. If you'd like special member only episodes. This full episode. Access before anyone else, transcripts and other member only content, you can join at fs.blog slash membership. Check out the show notes for a link. Today I'm speaking with Reed Hoffman. Reed is a partner at Greylock, the co-founder of LinkedIn. and is widely considered to be one of the best business strategists around. Read is on the board of Microsoft and was on the board of Airbnb for a decade. I wanted to talk to Reed because it's rare to get an opportunity to talk to someone in detail who is both a hands-on operator Investor And director. We talk about a lot of things, including the rituals of good board meetings, the principles of decision making, namely speed, simplicity, and empowerment. Frameworks to narrow options. How he thinks about opportunity cost. Lessons about scaling that other people miss, understanding people's alpha tenancies. how he's learned to control his impulses, and a lot more. It's time. To listen? and learn. I I think the place that I wanna start is you've been involved in some of the the biggest sort of like scaling companies that we know of today either through investing like Airbnb, hands on sort of like PayPal. And LinkedIn. What have you learned about scaling that most people miss? I'd say The classic thing is how you have to be constantly evolving your learning pattern. that what got you here won't get you there and it's cross so wide variety of fronts. It might very well be in Well, certainly in how you organize your management. And so for example, you grow from Everybody being an agent, an actor, you know, doing direct work to a few people doing uh management and direct work. to some people just managing to people who are managing managers. And as you get to different levels of scale and each of those changes a whole bunch of things within the organization, it changes you know, communications and reporting structures, it changes nimbleness, it changes whether or not you're single threaded or multi threaded. You know so all these things, but it's like it's what got you here won't necessarily get you there and you need to be learning the new game. That was the internal management one, but in addition to the internal management. you begin to look at things like Well, okay, well, what is your go to market strategy? Um, are you are you a sales based? Are you Internal sales, external sales. Are you a channel oriented? Um, you know, if you're doing a scales force and growing the sales force, how does that work? If you're getting the multi threaded and multiproducts, how does that work? You know, all of these things go into kind of like you're constantly learning as individuals, as leaders, but also as organizations. And that's probably the thing that is the Um the most central thing. Actually one other thing I would say is The part of growing that kind of learning curve is not just who you hire and who you bring into the organization, obviously that's critically important. But also how do you build the network around you? Like for example, when you think about financing Financing is a way to bring in networks of support and knowledge. That Those networks. can can expose you to you know key learnings, key ways to ask questions. Key people to collaborate with, key people to hire. And that that's actually part of what you're doing when you're doing things like financing or uh even necessarily what kinds of conferences you might be choosing to go to. Those the that kind of learning curve and the fact that you would what you may have to unlearn relear in order to do something is probably, you know, the kind of the key foundation by which A lot of other things in scaling is built. Are there sort of common mistakes that you see uh CEOs of the companies that you're invested in now. uh tend to try to make or make repeatedly that you wish uh everybody would sort of Learn these lessons. From somebody else rather than firsthand. The probably the most common mistake Is where do you get the cadence of hiring? And the fact that you need to be hiring and adjusting. So look usually When you're moving Very quickly and changing your level of scale with the number of employees is kind of a Tempo in this. usually you're gonna need to hire in Some external people in the senior roles. In order to really Make that work. And that's usually pretty uncomfortable and you have to make this decision about like well what's the right level of scale person, what experience do they need to be bringing in? How do I manage internally like you know the person who used to be my head of product or my head of engineering. Now I hope it's still working here and it's still really capable, but now may no longer be the Head of product or engineering. And how do you navigate that and so that Tends to make everyone Much slower. Much less You know, how do you trade up on that. People tend to naturally want to promote from within. versus higher And even though you might have very good people and very knowledgeable people, there's there's a bunch of legitimate reasons why you want to promote within. They know your particular culture, they know your particular way of playing the game, you have an efficiency of how you Talk to each other in it. But like you know, for example, the people who are religious about like, well, we only promote from within you know, then have major blind spots and they're not learning from the really amazing people they can be getting'cause there's many, many more smart people and diversity experience outside your organization. Now If you're not also from promoting from within Then You know, that creates a different kind of cultural misfunction. And so the usual answer is you need to be doing some of both. And if you're not doing some of both That can be a uh challenge. And that's kind of gives you a sense of You know, like what kinds of errors could be happening here. It's like I'm only doing this or I'm only doing that, and you actually have to be learning it as the as the game changes. And what about scaling yourself? I mean, I I think I read an article in prep for this that um, you know, I think it was uh really old, but it was about a decade ago, and you said you were operating at sixty percent effectiveness. What have you done to bridge the gap? How do we scale ourselves. You know, to some degree, the answer is easy and the execution's hard. Easy is You try to shift Things you're doing. to being covered by other people. It's like you scale organization, you hire people, they have They now have new responsibility work, so uh you know, I grow my own organizations to help me Uh execute well. So I you know, kind of recently just did a whole bunch of of of of Dali image And NFT stuff and You know, without a you know, really excellent team of six people who are No, frankly doing. Yeah. mm putting more hours in uh each of them that I was in the thing, we wouldn't have been able to get such an amazing set of projects out. And so that, you know, kinda growing through people and, you know, kinda growing the organization. Another one is you kind of look at, you know, what are the you know, skills you hone and do and how are you learning? How are you making decisions well? Uh how do you operate? you know, uh better or faster. And you know, what are the things you need to be doing and obviously in combination with the first one terms of delegation and collaboration. And then of course what tools do you use? You know, for example, uh you know, one of the things that I do in you know, kind of uh Microsoft OneNote is I have a a list of all of the People that I interface with that I keep a lit a running agenda with. Um, and so like for example, say I'm talking with you and it occurs to me that there's a really interesting way of thinking about kind of what are key things for AI companies of the future To do I might put a note in to my you know Sacha Nadella List. and say okay here's something here's something I should talk to him about or if I encounter a company that I think he should pay attention to. I'll put that in the list. And then that allows me, you know, by using this tool and and kind of a s by the way, again, simple. As well as Uh uh speed and empowerment. It allows me to to operationalize very well. you know, kind of how do I play a strongly beneficial catalytic network agent. And don't just rely upon you know, my memory. Yeah. As a way of doing this. Well, I think that's super powerful, right? Getting it out of your head. And so you don't have all these threads in your monkey mind trying to remember all these things and just having a system of organization. I think Jamie Diamond does the uh one page thing where he just writes everything down on one page of paper and he puts it in his pocket and that's how he he sort of keep tracks of what everybody owes him. Yep, that's it though. The the writing is really important. Like one of the things that The funny thing is is people will frequently say, like Amazon is a six page written report and And um Microsoft is a Power and so and I actually think the answer is These are all tools and you should use all of them. Right. like a six pager on something. Sometimes you should write a Power Sometimes you should just have a list of bullets, right? Uh and it depends on, you know, what the What they cost return is and What the ritual should be. Uh go deeper on that a little bit. When when do you think PowerPoint's more effective and when do you think sort of like writing it out uh like can you tie those things together for us? So I think It's what's the level of depth. That you should Invest in creating detailed media objects. to accomplish Your goal. And Like when you're writing, you might write in part because you have to thought through it in depth yourself. It's generally speaking You know, you'll find when you're writing Uh you're kind of, you know, got your hands deep in it, you're thinking about it, questions will occur to you as you try to phrase something, you realize that it may be more murky or some un undiscovered decisions or risks in what you're doing. So that's one part. Another part of it is you want detailed pickup. Bye. other people. So of course one of the reasons why you tend to uh have you know, kind of uh you know, writing and reading of things is cause the reading is someone can read it in a lot of depth. and and kind of pick something up. So that would be why you get to, you know, should you write one page, six pages. You know, fifty pages. Is a way of doing it. But by the way, of course, writing Takes a whole bunch of time. And if you said, Hey, I'm gonna like for example write down Everything that I'm gonna do in depth. Then you're gonna really slow down and not do a number of things that you probably need to do. So then you go, Well, when should I when should you use PowerPoint? Well Probably if what you're trying to do is get like an An overview of a broad area. Trying to get a Uh quickly get to it's a faster process. A moderate speed you know, kind of moderate understanding of things so you can make a decision and execute on something. It's a good way to to formulate a If what you're trying to do is for example Get a quick conversation going where you're soliciting feedback, opinion, knowledge, data from a number number of people, a PowerPoint can lead you through that. Um and then if you're doing something like for example what I was You know, what I love my COs to do in board meetings. Which is the kind of say What's top of mind, you might just have a bullet list. Because the real most important thing there is to just very quickly share What's most current In the CO's had On you know, opportunities, risks Concerns. Challenges And that the speed of what is it right now. is one of the most important. characteristics. So that's how you kind of look through The kind of three of these as a way to which problems do you apply to which of these? And I'm sure there's others too, but like, you know, each of these you know, uh levels of depth. in in artifact that you're creating. To guide communication and decisions. In the past you've said that you Uh and I'm gonna quote, root for better angels on people. T talk to me about that. Well what you want is and this is part of the reason why when, you know, the the June Cohen, who's the former exec producer of Ted said hey and is the producer, the executive producer and CO of of Master Scale. um said hey we let's turn the tables let's interview you The episode for me became Um make everyone the hero of their own story. And I think that people are really have tons of potential that they usually don't uh realize uh uh potential incapabilities Potential in in kind of quality of person and character in terms of being able to you know, kind of make the world better. In a better place, be more compassionate, be more I think there's a ton of potential there across all people. And so When you say what are you trying to do In the world generally. in projects that you're leading in impact that you're trying to have on people around you. It's you're trying to help them You're trying to help people realize more of that potential. And so that's kind of rooting for their better angels. So like For example, you know, a a very frequent conversation topic I'll have Um is people say, Well If they're doing that, that's probably'cause they're like selfish and narcissistic. And by the way, this is where people are complicated. The answer is yeah, there's probably some selfishness and narcissism there. But the story they're telling themselves probably isn't. a narcissistic They're probably telling themselves You know. This is better for the world, or this is the right project. It's like when you have two executives who are competing for Which risk should an organization take? Which project should resources be put into They're not telling themselves I'm only competing because if it puts it into mine that I have a possibility of promotion. I have a possibility I actually genuinely believe Theirs is the right one. That's part of the reason they've been working on it. That's part of the reason why they've been refining it, putting their massive number of hours into it. And so part of what you want to do is you want to give people the opportun the the as much of an opportunity as you can. to be their better selves, to be to where they're realizing that, you know, kind of rising above you know, kind of a simple narcissism or a simple very narrow s self interest and making decisions that are better for the group because ultimately, in many cases, this also helps them become better people, that com helps them become better leaders. Um, and so you wanna be creating that possibility And that realization of potential as much as you can. And that's Part of you know, rooting for their Better angels. I i is there a story that comes to mind when you think of make everyone the hero of their own story in terms of how it's amplified the effectiveness of that person? You know, probably You know, here here would be one which is so You know I I brought Jeff Wiener in to be the CO because Jeff's one of the Great. scaling leaders of our You know, of our kind of our era and in the technology space and And Jeff knows a whole bunch of things about scaling organizations that I you know, simply learn from. It's one of the things that In general. you know, try to work with people, even employees, who you learn from,'cause if you're If you're hitting that That Good of a Bar. You're you're at least in a good space. And yeah. Uh, one of the things that Jeff came to me and said, Hey I'm finding your co founder Alan Blue. to be disruptive, he's not fitting in the the scheme which I'm setting up And you know, it's up to me to scale. And so I said, Well Look, I think it's the you don't yet Realize both Allen's strengths and then the value of having you know, kind of founder still in the mix. Um, and so I want you to trust me on this, I don't want you to give Alan kind of a A bit of a a minister with a kind of a uh diversified or broad or you know, kind of a fragmented portfolio. And see what you get from it. And give it some real time in order to do that. Um and if you know, six months from now you come back and say, look, this is really just still not working. then then we can have another conversation, but I want you to do that. And this is part of You know, and then Uh that was kind of giving you know, Allen the chance to go and kinda show what he could do in this new organization that was different and than the kind of scaling Organism. that Jeff was trying to create and You know, about three or four months later, Jeff came back and said, You were totally right. Like he's been really instrumental in in creating some of the frames and think about like LinkedIn as marketplaces. and what like some of the metrics would be for success. And several of the of the different leaders in product and engineering are finding him in a y an essential person to be talking to in the strategy. And so You know, I'm really glad you pushed me on this. Um, in order to do that. And You know, and by the way, I I offer this as one, you know, Jeff also taught me a ton too, so this is not This is this is a an instance, but that's an instance where it's like look give Uh, Alan. And Alan, by the way, still works at LinkedIn and is Is facilitating everything from like the LinkedIn Cities project, which is how does LinkedIn Help cities. um you know kind of economically plan for the benefit of of the health of the city and the citizenry, like which industries are growing and which which job functions are growing and what should the city be doing in order to help that. And he's still there doing it. And that's actually in fact one of the things that's really you know, kind of important when you get to this longevity and this is Part of having Um you know, done the right enablement. So that Alan could show the kinds of things he could do. within this new scaling organism that Jeff was building. Does that relate to people's and and to borrow another term that you've used previously, alpha tendencies? And if so, how so? Talk to me about understanding someone's alpha. So we're We're tribal creatures, we're pack animals. You know, um Aristotle were citizens of the polis. Polis is this really interesting word. It comes from It has all these things as political, it's police, it's polite, right? All of these things kinda come into the this this the that were There were creatures of the city together. And Part of that is that people have different um leadership instincts about like I must be in charge That's kind of your alpha tendencies, and and sometimes people have like just like I must be in charge of everything, sometimes they're I must be in charge of this important thing. And so those are kind of alpha tenancies. And one of the things that when you're composing an organization understanding where alpha tendencies are and how they will cause someone to behave and not behave is really important because By the way. If you put someone who doesn't have really strong alpha tendencies in charge of a project that person generally speaking won't drive the project as hard. That might be a good thing. Right. But generally speaking You know, like for example The only people who become COs have very strong alpha tendencies. The only people who run for president have very strong alpha tendencies. Excera, because You know there's so much uh difficulty going and functioning in those jobs, you have to have that as kind of a driver. And so then you try to understand that as you compose your teams, as you compose your organizations, as you scale your organizations. And You know, some of that is very strongly um virtuous, like as an investor, I look for people who have very strong big ambitions Um because you know, jump you know, doing these start up companies is so hard, you have to Have that. uh, you know, willingness to lose an arm in order to succeed kind of thing. And you know, wanting to to be the person who built This really big thing. But on the other hand, you also l look at it if you're like, for example, someone has a really strong alpha tendencies and they're not gonna like working for the person they're working for. That could be disruptive. Um, and then sometimes you're in a case where I call it repressed alpha. Which is You the person doesn't realize their own alpha tendencies And it kinda comes out and various forms of passive aggressive. And then you have to manage that too. And that's that's one of the reasons I find it's a useful lens. And thinking about human nature, people organizational composition you know how ecosystems of people work together. It it sounds sort of very biologically driven, right? Like we all have biological sort of programming to fit somewhere into a hierarchy and status and how we see ourselves and how driven we are by that. Yes. And I don't know if it's You know, it may be too simple of a variable to easily map to You know, kind of Like I don't think we'll discover it. necess it'd be interesting, you know, if we discovered a certain set of genes or or expressions and phenotypes. That led to being more alpha, but I think it's you know, obviously you know, part of what happens is how do you respond to circumstances you discover in your childhood and other circumstances, how do your adults model around you and all the rest. But yes, I do think there is a It it's because we're, you know. Living beings. Biological beings that But That naturally ties to this. You've had over a thousand board meetings between Microsoft Airbnb, LinkedIn, PayPal, and more. And one thing that you said recently is that successful board meetings don't just happen by accident. What are the rituals of these meetings that make'em successful? Well, it's a really good question in part because You know, I actually think most people don't realize how boards are more of a kind of an apprenticeship Kind of Profession gig versus anything else. and understanding how to do a board well only comes with a lot of repeat practice, which mostly you know, very few professions, Venture Capital is one of the few that does. Um, the kinds of things that I think are very important for a good board meeting Or They you b you've got a combination of the governance questions, which is roughly is the company Kind of uh on the right track relative to its position and opportunities and everything else and And is you know kind of operating at the level of Of Excellence that it can. relative to its industry and talent and all the rest. And then the other one is How do you help the company? Um now as you get t more to public company it's becomes more governance and and and somewhat less help, partially because You know, like when you get on a a board of something like Microsoft You know, it's a huge company, and while I you know, personally we'll go meet with product groups and do other things and, you know, kind of weigh in on certain kind of technical uh technology strategy decisions. completely in service to Satya. you know, the the governance is a higher function. Now In governance. You need to be able to understand What is the actual circumstance? Like too often people will be dependent upon the press. Like does the press good or bad? And actually that that maybe is only uh at best very lightly correlated with whether the company is doing well or poorly. It might might be having bad press, but actually the company's doing what it should be doing and all the rest just because of the circumstance. The company could be getting great press or g or something else and not be doing the right thing as well. So it's like it's not that. It's kind of the question of you know, what is it where is its impact on you know, society, where is it relative to competition, where is it having relative to technology You know, is the right blend of talent. And uh thinking outside not just inside the company uh kind of really important and all of those kinds of things that get to a good governance thing which frequently when people are trying to To simplify this, they go Well, is it a certain percentage of revenue growth? an a an operating margin of profitability and sort of that and those actually again Are kind of not necessarily well calibrated with a three, five, ten year Horizon You know, they they they're not zero calibrated obviously, but but like But you're really thinking about was it the three, five, and ten year? And and this, by the way, begins to get to the more subtle questions about board governance. that most people don't realize is you say, Well, we're we're here for the shareholders. Well, are you here for the day trader shareholders? Are you here for the shareholders gonna be holding for ten years? Are you gonna hold for the are you here for the shareholders who might be buying next year? Right. Like What's that balance of and how much risk? do these shareholders want to take? Right? Like are you gonna say, hey, we're gonna actually put it all on on double zero and roll the dice because the opportunity is so huge? Or are we gov governing so that there is very little in the risk category in order to make this work. And so those those kinds of questions all go into boards would then get into rituals around, you know, like how do you identify the risks. What do you s what do you talk about that's top of mind for the CEO? you know, do do you bring executives in or not? And in what Fashion and pattern. How do you talk about the strategy? Anyway, that was probably a Much longer answer than you were expecting, but it's partially'cause this well goes very deep. Not at all. I I love the nuance and the detail. I actually want to dive in a little bit deeper on that one. Two things stood out there. One, you use the word ritual intentionally. W what is it about that word? Why did you choose ritual? Well, a couple reasons. Maybe three reasons. One is because part of the expectation kind of like you know, team play. you know, whether it's basketball or everything else. is to get into a set of reflexive you know, kind of play. All our rituals. So that you're aware of like, for example, like, well, we're gonna do we're gonna open up every board meeting with kind of a SWAT analysis, strengths, weaknesses, opportunities, threats, and we're going to do an update to where we were last time. And that's what we're always gonna make sure that we do, because then we can be Well set. For that. could also be the like, for example, one of the rituals that I actually particularly like and try to you know, kind of nudge my you know, CO uh of the various companies I'm on the board of to do is to have a section that's kind of like just revealing what's top of mind. But problems Are you thinking about what strategies or opportunities are you thinking about? What are the things that you're most wrestling with? So that we have some sense of both your mind and also how to help. And by the way, that can be much more Too often people spend too much time preparing for board meetings where the real question is, is the the the right balance of cost to reward in governance and helping the company, right? Not not infinite. And so like the CO thing. And then the the third is You know, part of When I think about the pattern of of kind of work generally. I think rituals is a good format. That's one of the reasons why one of my portfolio companies, Coda You know, kind of kind of is it's work the way you want. It's redesigned you it's As opposed to having to adopt the workflows that are imposed upon you by your productivity software. design it for you in a very easy way. And that's, you know, design the rituals you want. And so that was it was kind of all of these uh combination of things that made me Choose the word ritual. Walk me behind the scenes a little bit. What happened during a crisis uh at some of these board meetings? Is it standard operations, is it different? What what's going on during something like Covet nineteen or financial crisis? Well There's a couple of things that are going on in crisis. One is you also it's a good place where you get a sense of You know, is the CO and the management on top of it. So for example, if you walk into a board meeting and and there's a crisis and you're not presented In a way that's Where well there's a crisis. And and you know, we're doing a briefing for what the crisis is. and kind of what our preliminary responses and thoughts are. Uh what are analysis of the challenges are, then you, you know, have an issue. So if you walk into something and people are like, Yeah. Covid. Pandemic, whatever. You're like No no no, the whole world's changing,'cause even though maybe In your particular thing, by the way, obviously Covet had some tailwinds for some digital businesses,'cause I know when we all had to kind of retreat home and work through our computers. You know, is everything from obviously, you know, Zoom and Netflix and games all kind of like, you know, suddenly massively increase in the amount of time they are. But even then you say, Okay Gotta understand what that is, and you can't necessarily predict that as a new normal forever. that's that's the form of crisis you always hope for But then there's obviously like even when you say, Well, the business it hasn't really shown up in my numbers yet, but like industries are collapsing, supply chains are collapsing, levels of stress. With with society is going through the roof. Right. Uncertainty abound And so how does that all play? So you you should have something of a We've got a there's there's a big event. This is how we look at it. This is the questions we're asking. And though so part of the thing that you do as a board member is you bring in the Uh, like for example, one of the I think the personal objectives I always have that I also recommend to the board members is to say, well Make sure that you bring at least one really important question. that the company may not be thinking about and bring one new thing from the outside world. that could be very helpful to the company. And that's kind of the minimum contribution per board meeting. Because if you're not you know, kind of d doing that then you're not proactively thinking about the company when you're outside you're not bringing what you can uniquely bring. And so when it gets a crises, you could say, well Like for example, if it's a pandemic, it could be the we may we may need to respond much harder earlier, cause one of the things that's generally good practic business practice, if you think something is trending in a direction, like a business is trending towards collapsing. you know, cut it off early, right? Like it's part of how you survive and thrive in businesses. is to make judgments early on this stuff. So you might say that might be the thing. Or you might say Actually, in fact, it seems like the world is, you know, kind of on fire and blowing up. But actually, in fact, we can we can navigate the following way to make it into an opportunity. How do you convert? the n the business to the new reality. And so like for example, one of the more delightful microcosms was A restaurant just opening, you'd think they're hosed. They made it they turned it into uh takeout windows. Right. They went, okay. People are still gonna want to have good food. that they don't have to prepare themselves, they're just not gonna come into the restaurant. So how do we how do we operationalize for that? in a really good way and and that kind of pivoting. And that might be another thing you might bring in. And so Those are the kinds of things that you look at when you're looking at You know, how to help um you know, kind of both the governance and the help navigation on boards when you encounter things like crises. W was there a difference between how the companies performed and how CEOs sort of reacted to that initial um sort of news about COVID and the world changing. And and what I'm thinking here is the people that were quick to adopt my hypothesis would be that they performed better And their companies perform better over the next sort of like 18 months, whereas people who were slower uh to adjust to a changing reality or even denying that reality. That would also be a heuristic that it probably didn't perform well. But I'm curious, you have way more aperture into this than I do. 'Cause like part of what you're you're measuring is how well is someone assessing what the possibilities are. And so for example In the early you know, pandemic was, you know, people were like, Oh, this will be a month and it'll be gone. You're like, Well Maybe. But by the way, what if it's not? Like'cause part of what you have to do is think about like what are the possibilities and probabilities and then navigate to both surviving and thriving in a broad range of those. Now you can't do for everything. So for example, you say, Well Maybe nuclear war is gonna start next week. Well, okay. Right. If if that's gonna happen, then you know, you that that's not part of our you know It's legitimately not anywhere near our scenario planning. Um, and so you go, Okay. What's the what's the set of things you need to be doing? And You know, part of it is also like where do people look at you know, kinda like also like one level of crisis is okay, how will it affect the customers, how will it affect the revenue, how it will affect ongoing operations. By the way, this is one of the the things that board members who are on you know, multiple uh boards can be helpful on in ways that are spreading of knowledge. is you know, so well In addition to all that and operations, we also have a Like this is mammothly stressful and disruptive to employees. You know, there's questions around Um, okay, how are they navigating child care? You know, a bunch of employees usually have families. You know, what is the question of uh like kind of resetting to that. And then how do you how do you help do that? So for example Some companies started looking for what are the resources they could go hire and deploy to help their employees. And then it's like oh okay, great, let's let's make sure that those resources are in various ways identified and shared across different companies as a way of doing that, as a way of thinking about it, as a way of making it work. Right. And so you get that kind of level of of additional depth because you know, you're initially gonna think about like does the business survive? And that obviously in effects jobs and all the rest, but then you start thinking about like well Boy, we now have a you know a mental health question that's been amplified for all our employees. So what do we do? Well maybe we should go you know, engage Lyra health as a way of helping with those kinds of issues too. One of the things that you you mentioned earlier was sort of make judgments early, and that relates to three of the principles that you have around decision making, which is sort of speed, simplicity, and empowerment. I'm wondering if you can explore those a little bit more in detail with me. Yeah. So one of the Things. Then I'll come come to the those three principles. But one of the things that I find um is useful as a understanding frame for everyone is that I think all companies are in the process of becoming technology companies at different speeds because technology is changing industries. And so There's the obviously soon, like what is usually referred to as technology companies are technology companies that are like redefining the border's software. reinventing new kinds of technological hardware Excellent. And then it kind of bleeds back in, but I think even like Like manufacturing companies are becoming technology companies by sensors and, you know, robotic lines and all the rest. And and And you know, Hollywood, you know, is a technology company through CGI. and streaming and and distribution. So it's like it's a general thing. Now One of the things about technology Is it picks up the clock. the technological clock is accelerating decade by decade. And so the the time frames in which you need to operate and need to make decision are accelerating. Part of that is like one of the things that Uh when I when I kinda Go through the Entire world. There is basically two places that embody This fighter pilot terminology called an ootaloop. Observe, orient, decide, act. It's how fast you make these decisions. Through this kind of the this framework, both as individuals and a society. And it's Silicon Valley in China. And I think that's where all technology companies are in the process of happening. And so Then you begin to say whatever your particular frameworks are Um and you know, there's there's there's some very good frameworks along Racy and Daisy and so forth for distributing decisioning within the organization and that's part of the empowerment. Side. And then the speed and simplicity. parts of its speed we've kind of already covered is kind of like one of the things that Generally speaking. making a Decision faster is always better. Right, like unless you you have to evaluate the decision a little bit sometimes and say, Well, an extra X days or whatever You know, make it Ten percent better. is worth it on this decision. For some particular reason. But like for example, one of the things I learned very early days in PayPal was Um when I'm making decisions at start up speed. Even confronted with very large decisions. Do you buy the company You know, this company do you Do you shut down this division and so forth? You go What would my decision right now? Yeah. I wasn't able to take any more time. In order to solve this decision. And You go, okay, well, my decision will be X. Then go, Okay, well specifically would I learn or who would I talk to that might change the decision. Cause if you don't actually end up with a good set of answers, then you say, Well, let's make the decision now. Right. And then when you When you think, well, maybe I could talk to so and so, or maybe I could get this information, you say, Well, what's the cost and time of getting that information? Is it better to make the decision now? That's obviously all plays in the speed. And then in simplicity One of the things that I've learned by you know, kind of working at these, you know, organizations that are either at scale or getting to scale. is simple plans are all that work, simple plans are all that kind of you know simple things are are the thing that can can most easily spread without distortion within an organization. And so you want to have a certain simplicity of of kinda how you're doing it, even if you are, you know, kind of being a literally overly simple. That's the better side to err on. For scale application. And then that's that's kind of a And one of the things that I think is a general thing for all Every professional And then especially all leaders to really orient on is How do you make decisions fast and well? is one of the central things you're doing. When you're doing you know, a w a wide variety of Essentially you know, kind of all Maybe all jobs, certainly all white collar jobs, certainly all white collar leadership jobs. Can we dive into that a little bit more? Like how would you teach somebody to make decisions fast and well or faster? Uh and sort of better. At the same time. So there's a couple of things. So one like for example, one of the things that I I value in in people I work with and hire is is is being explicit learners. Which is you try to learn something in a way that you can explain it to other people. as a tool and as a principle and so you know, a little bit of like when I was learning how to make decisions much faster at PayPal. I said all right, well what I will do is I will get into the ritual. Um confronted with a major decision I will see if I can make that decision right now. because I'm what I'm doing is a training my way away from the discomfort of Oh God, I haven't thought about everything. What if I'm wrong? you know, how could I make this big decision so quickly? Away from that. But not in a way that you say, Well the decision's made when you do it, but you're thinking about you know, concrete about like well you know, who else would you talk to? What other information or data could you get? Uh what other things could bear on this decision. What are the kinds of risk analysis? So that's one ritual that helps you with that. And it you know, obviously you should start by Doing the the trying it, not immediately going to I'm going to be making the decision in you know five seconds from from when it happens. But then also. Part of what you begin to to do is kind of learn a set of questions. There's kind of There's a whole bunch of different stuff around decision making. So one is like, Well, how How much of this is a one way door or a two way door? Like if you make this decision Is it recoverable from? 'Cause if it's catastrophic and and expensive, then okay, well maybe we should be a little more have a higher degree of certainty, a higher degree of of likelihood and evidence in what we're doing. Um questions around How how much can you experiment with decision? How much can you try it? Like is there experimentation that can that can do it. It's like the one way, two way, two way door, but it could be Not quite getting through the door, but testing it yet. Like, you know, is there a set of tools there that you learn to do these things? And then of course you learn a bunch of stuff from decision making science. Which is Trying not to have some cost bias. you know, trying not to you know, kind of be deluded by you know, blind spots and so forth. Like there's Most of the decision science stuff. kind of shows you how you make easy, like maybe bad failures. But you slip in the failures of decision mode when you don't even know it. And so how do you bring those kinds of things in? And so You try to bring all of that in. to essentially decision making. It's like it's the kind of thing that when you think about You know, what should be the advanced courses in high school You know, because the natural kind of an uh way that a academia You know, which is kind of, you know, it all starts with how do you train professors? What's graduate school? How do you train people gradual undergraduate? How do you train people undergraduate, high school? And you go, Okay. But that's not the primary arc for most people. Um and so like for example when you say well should I have calculus two Or not. Right, as a way of of of prepping for this path. The actual You know, kinda question that you could actually get to that would be a really good thing. To have in all high schools. is decision making. Right. Like how do you how do you how do you think about making decision making a good way? Because you know, obviously we go through life making decisions. Should we Uh date person X or Y or get Married to them. Um, should we stay here or should we move? What job should we choose? What college should we choose? What things should we major in? And there's a whole set of things that go into that. All of those things go into decision making where being thoughtful and learning and iteratively to be better about it. is really fundamental. So anyway, so that's you know, that's uh I myself am a student of this stuff. Because of that. Purview of how it applies to everything. One of the underappreciated aspects of decision making that a lot of people don't cover is sort of opportunity cost. How do you think about opportunity cost? Well, it's it' funny, because my my primary business of technology investing is a case in point of this. People normally assume That Like we say, Well, what's your what's your regret? And they presume that your regret is you invested in company X. And that failed. And actually, in fact, the more important thing is you missed company wise. So when people ask me You know, like what's your regret as an investor? It's like, well, I was presented Pinterest three times and misunderstood it and didn't invest in it. Those things are the huge regrets because it's the it's the opportunity cost. For it. And Part of, of course, the reason why opportunity costs is hard for people to think about is it's the possibility. And you might change your possibility landscape based on your action. You might you might do things you know, like for example, going and meeting someone or possibly considering something, or you know, a decision whether or not you take a meeting or not as an investor. And Obviously given that there's no way to to reliably get it to a hundred percent,'cause it's a big wide world and everything else. It kinda confuses people. And then they simplify and so would you What you want to do when you're thinking about opportunity costs is say, Well Like in terms of personal life, think in terms of one, two, three, five years. of what you're doing, thinking about like you know, is the thing that you're possibly exploring doing or doing The kind of thing that that Huh. would make you happy about when you look back at one, two, three, five years You go, Yep, this was a really good path. I was you know, glad I was doing it. You kinda look at You know, do I have some room for serendipity and discovery and curiosity and learning? You know, one of the things my first chief of staff uh Ben Kasnoca, also a co author of my book, Startup Review. says about me, he says, look, one of the things I he he says I learned from you is that you Always every week. try to to do something that's That's a little bit broader aperture than just my firm work commitments. It could be Taking a meeting as a friend of mine recommended it very strongly to me. It could be spending an hour and glancing at a book. That's very different. It could be Spending thirty minutes listening to a poetry podcast. that little bit of of kind of experimentation opens up not just your creativity and your mindset, but also what you may be thinking about as your opportunity landscape. Because that's how you can discover things that are masiv changes That are really important. And how do you think about it when it comes to sort of positioning size versus like maximizing the opportunity available, but also leaving uh optionality open for what may come in the future. People can sometimes be overly concerned about optionality. Now optionality obviously is good because that's you know for opportunity and so forth. But like one of the smartest things that my father told me when I was a kid about decision making. It may even been The thing that made me really start focusing on studying decision making. was you know, essentially said, look, one of the difficult things about making decisions is it reduces opportunity in the short term. But that's the only thing that really creates great opportunity in the long term. Um, so if you don't make decisions, you try to live too much in a kind of a liminal opportunity space. you might be just kind of like missing very big opportunities and not creating what the really big opportunities are. And so So you do want that kind of optionality. Now part of optionality is being willing to make changes. You say, Well, okay, so I've been working in the tech industry and it's been fun and lucrative and all the rest, but I like what I really want to Make sure that I'm uh, you know, kind of participating in Some of the ideas that I've been thinking about my whole life. So when I, you know, I'm asked to give the commencement speech to Vanderbilt. I go and give it on friendship. Because that's actually one of the things I've been thinking about a whole lot. And I've been thinking about like how do we think about that? And so So part of what that means is, you know, I'll go and spend the time doing it. And it doesn't necessarily mean that I have to have been building the optionality for it or anything else. As much as I've been thinking about and preparing and so when something rolls in, like, Hey, would you Would you give the commencement speech here? I could go, Okay, now I'm gonna go spend Thirty hours. working on a commencement speech versus ten,'cause I'm gonna go do this new area. Um, and so anyway, those that's a that's kind of a call it more of an impressionistic color to your question, which is You know, how do you bring in the notion of optionality without overly committing to like, I must maximize optionality at every available minute because maximizing optionality frequently you have to make decisions and commit to something and try it for at least a while. To see how it plays out. Yeah, you sort of have to keep all your options open, and then when something comes, you go all in. So cast a wide net and then when you you find something you dive into it and then sort of rinse and repeat, I guess. Is that an accurate sort of Well it can be if you have it, but you can also be thinking while you're doing your thing and really committed to doing it. you could be thinking about what are the things that could be important in your future and then kinda ready for them when you When you trip across them. Oh, go deeper on that. It sounds like positioning for the future. So yeah. So like for example, way back early in my Career. I was the project manager the product manager for A virtual worlds product whole worlds away for Fujitsu Software Corporation. And probably ideally I would have in just looking at that, worked at that another year to really kind of Um fuling virtual worlds. you know, kind of honing the product management skills and so forth. But then two things kinda came along. I knew that I wanted to create new kinds of social product. um, you know, kind of social products are one of my central themes of my own personal career. 'Cause even PayPal has elements where it's a a social product. And I knew that I wanted to be doing that. And then what happened is a a guy who had founded, you know, the E three gaming c convention and then also the entertainment magazine or for you know uh electronic entertainment uh gaming magazine and else came and said, Hey, I wanna do a startup. I was like, Oh well Here is a good co founder. the capital markets are good for doing internet startups. I should go run and do this. And so I left. A little earlier. I did a you know, I done you know, two years of intense work. At Fujitsu. But like Uh I left earlier than I was expecting. Um, because was like okay, here's an opportunity and I knew that I had been wanting to build kind of social products. And so It wasn't that I was now kind of like, you know, on vacation at the beach. the world was a complete opportunity set. It was I was paying some attention to what kinds of things could play very well in a future opportunity and when something came along. I made the adjustments to to dive into it. So it's not sort of blind positioning, it's more like a conscious positioning. Exactly. And and you know, the way that you do it consciously is you Think somewhat yourself, you talk to people who know you well, you talk to people who know the market and industries well. Um You know, it's the kind of thing that's good to have, like you you know go out to lunch or dinner every so often with people you think are really interesting around Who might Help inform. what this future possibility set looks like, optionality set looks like. Um, it's like, for example, one of the pieces of advice that I give entrepreneurs is too often what they do is they go, Okay, now I need to raise fun money So now I'm going to call read and say, Now I need to raise money. It's like well The really best way to do this is to with a number of not just one, but a number of different you know, possible funders is to establish a connection with them early. So they get to start getting to know you, say here's what I'm building, here's what I'm doing. So then when you come back, it's like okay, well, how much do you how much have you stayed on plan? What have you learned? And I now know you and trust you better. So it's kind of the The building up for that opportunity of fa of financing Don't just walk in the door But actually, you know, build something of a trust relationship. Before you Jump into it. You're said to have The gift. For being the opposite of impulsive. How do you teach this? And are there rituals that you use to sort of Center yourself in the moment or ha walk me through this. Well, it's interesting. I wonder if I should teach it more. Um Hey, there are a few questions left in this episode that are for supporting members only. 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