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How to Be Awesome at Your Job · 2026-07-16 · 51 min · 8,851 words

1167: Mastering the Three Elements of Charisma with Olivia Fox Cabane

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There is so much body language emanating every second that you cannot control it consciously. The best and really the only way to emanate charisma is to control your mind. Charisma originates in the mind. Yeah. If you make them feel good about themselves, they will associate that feeling to you. If you make them feel bad about themselves, same thing.

Self-criticism is so powerful because the brain reads it as a real attack. Ironically Стрент Ен Пау. Will often come from

Self compassion and self-forgiveness. That's Livia Fox Cabot. She's the world's leading authority on charisma and has worked with numerous organizations to demonstrate how charisma is a learnable skill, through her hard scientific approach. She's also the best-selling author of The Charisma Myth, How Anyone Can Master the Art and Science of Personal Magnetism. Which is now on its second edition. I am super excited to share this conversation because Olivia has been on my dream guest list since episode zero. The number one myth surrounding Prisma.

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